Strap-on harnesses are an all-time favorite with lesbians. There’s nothing hotter than girl-on-girl action with just the right dildo-harness set. But that’s not to say adventurous heterosexual couples can’t have fun with them, too.

Gender bending experimentation pushes the boundaries of everyday sex, allowing partners to experience the “other side” for deeper mutual understanding. Strap-ons are also helpful in cases of erectile dysfunction.

Many strap-ons and dildos are interchangeable, so choose a comfortable harness and a pick dildos you really love. For enhanced adventure, consider a vibrating or e-stim strap-on. Find out more in our foolproof Harness Guide.